A320nx V6 speed on approach won’t slow down

This is bad advice. Keep the speed in managed mode, but if you are having issues with getting the approach phase to trigger. You can use the MCDU to activate the approach phase manually. And all the reference speed in managed mode will be adjusted to the approach speed for each flaps position.

Move throttle to idle should be at the Re-tard callout. Which is about 20 Feet AGL callout. Not 100.