AI Pilot Keeps Getting turned on without me having it on in the settings

There is another thread on this subject, so you aren’t the only one, it looks like this may be an issue.

You should enter a support ticket on the issue, as Asobo/MS does not monitor the forums to find and fix issues.
You can enter a Zendesk support ticket from the Support tab at the top of each forum page.
In there look for Submit a Request.
Cross refer your post to your request and add the request # to your post.
After that, the more votes here, the closer to the top of the triage list it gets.