ATC Assigns Wrong Runways with Wind Direction

Many of us have said, they should just go back to the ATC of FS9 and FSX. That was not perfect by any means, but it was not so screwed up as this one.
I think now there is even again a problem with asking for a runway and approach.
No I don’t mean asking for the wind correct runway, that only results in a circle to land instruction.
I mean for example RWY 3R instead of 3L because it is the more convenient or the one with a better approach.
That used to work and now suddenly it would not even give the option at GCLP