(46) How to set up OBS for VR recording and streaming - YouTube
Watching from 1.40 in this video, and using Steam VR you can view as required, if I understand your request correctly. I would probably use “both eyes” views with either a left or right dominant bias. You dont have to do the streaming or recording bit, its just displaying on screan what you see as the pilot.
The auto pilot can land the aircraft ok (it can be hit miss occaisionally), if you wanted to be looking around when landing but with the above method the viewers will see your pilots eye view, rather than them being immersed in the VR view.