No, I’m afraid that isn’t realistic. Even with neutral yoke, the aircraft shouldn’t immediately head off the runway if you are using full rudder. Not even at max crosswind. Arguably, you shouldn’t need to use full controls in any axis to land or takeoff within design wind.
Doing so would mean that it would be impossible to make any correction into the wind.
What’s also interesting is that the wind that takes you off the runway doesn’t seem to lift your upwind wing at all. That’s one of the purposes of putting your yoke hard over at the beginning. To level the wings.
I’ve heard that the wind model is currently a bit over enthusiastic in MSFS, which might be the source of some of your issues.
Are you certain that you are getting full deflection out of your rudders?