Might help to say what issues you are facing.
I’m playing in VR very enjoyably at the moment. Not perfect obviously. VR Toolbar is an issue so I’ve keybound the panels I need to popup (ATC for instance on thumb button on joystick to toggle on/off).
VR positions aren’t great, but have I ever had a cockpit that was perfect in MSFS 2020 or DCS… NO. So i have the axis for moving forward and back, left right and up down on my throttle joystick to move which I’m using constantly during flight anyway to get better view over nose etc…
black box / no mouse was my biggest issue at first with workaround for now being no HDR and esc/esc if no mouse happens.
Its possible I don’t fly the aircraft that you are also, so I may not experience the same issues. (I fly mostly GA up to larger twin turboprops, no ariliner or heli).