I have similar specs (5800X3D, 3080Ti) and just gave up on VR. Too many problems. It’s nice for leisurely flying VFR, but for a complex aircraft it simply doesn’t work. I need easy access to a checklist, charts and other tools like VPilot plus a way to easily make notes when ATC contacts me.
Theoretically you can do all that in VR using various hacks, but I just feel completely drained after a session like that. Not considering all the fiddling required and technical issues with getting smooth performance in VR.
I have 4 screens, the main one is 43’’ 4k + one 15 inch touch screen where I put the FMS’s and overhead panel. For me it’s a much better experience.