Ryzen 9 3900x and RTX 2080S, still not enough?

In regard to different readings, it is likely that MSI Afterburner is reading the FPS of the internal FPS counter, not actually the game.

OK, in regard to your primary concern, I do have 3700x + 2060S and I run it at 2560 x 1080. I got similar but a bit better FPS here. A few things I noticed that could improve the FPS in the cockpit are

Btw, you can totally turn up you graphics settings (I changed my rendering scaling to 150%) because this is a CPU limited scenario