The desktop aviator (here) used to be a great place for intertnational things like this but I don’t think he’s shipping international now after covid.
Apart from that I’m personally not sure about anything else you can buy, however you could get a company to 3d print these for you, or someone who owns a 3d printer…
Fidelity wise, Option 2 is better because it has no detents like the real plane but there’s also little friction so it can fall down, not a huge issue but option 1 will be less fidelity but it wont fall down – you can fix the falling but gotta get more DIY
Hope this helps.