I experience that also but… If I’m on approach ( especially with non-controlled airfields) I first do a low pass to check for obstacles on the runway of choice and the direction of the wind sock.
In the case of active ATC , they will tell you what runway is in use at that moment. ( at least IRL)
Not sure if AI ATC is that clever but I’ve quid using that since I experience too much rubbish from them.
I hope /expect AI ATC to become smarter over time.