I’ve definitely noticed this as well; it really throws the feel of the plane off. The yoke should mirror my stick movements exactly. If the control surfaces are hydraulic and have some max speed they can move, by all means limit control surface speed, but the yoke should mirror my movements.
Maybe the same issue, but even the planes with less lag like the Extra and the Pitts feel like the have more inertia than they should. Trying to snap into/out of a roll just doesn’t work if you do it like other sims.