@DDM0815 You have many valid observations and I think most agree with your observations to varying degrees. The solutions are not intended to exclude anybody, quite the contrary. I believe I mentioned in my main topic posting that the flight sim genre can be attractive to players that tend to be a bit shy, or solitary. We all like to play alone from time to time.
HarryHowzer is spot on about all the benefits of the private lobby system. There appears to be a belief that all the active players are spending all their time exclusively behind the private lobby wall, I assure you this is absolutely not the case. Almost all that I fly with start our daily racing journey in the public lobbies and find each other there often. Dropping in on your buddy and stealing lots of points from them is quite enjoyable and quite common. I promise we are not all hiding in private, but collision off private lobbies are a blast too.
If there is one thing Iâm sure we can all agree on it is that most are not having much success with the current matchmaking system.