You can’t. Not with a consumer level trim wheel. It is not a realistic wheel, it is just the best way to do it, for the price.
It helps to understand how the trim wheel works. It works like a button press, not like an axis. So it works based on how many button clicks are registered by spinning the wheel, not by how far you move it. And slow to medium, meticulous turning of the wheel seems to register FAR more clicks per second than quickly spinning the wheel.
Some planes DO seem to work better than others.
But, I suspect you can get a more realistic experience by trusting it to work with slow to medium turns… fight that instinct to spin it quickly when you know you have to make a large adjustment. Practice on tarmac, because when you are spinning the disk at the proper speed, the trim can be seen moving quite quickly (unless it is one of those temperamental planes that doesn’t seem to like the trim wheel). I get excellent results with the DC6 and Kodiak, for example, and since I figured out how to properly use it, I don’t recall it NOT working with any plane I have flown since (although I did have a lot of trouble with some planes before I figured this wheel out).
And once the trim is properly set, fine tuning can feel quite a lot like the real thing.
That wheel, and the way MSFS accepts trim adjustments will never work exactly like the real thing. You would need a wheel axis and a trim axis button you can assign to the wheel axis for that to work, or some real hardware trickery to work around the current MSFS settings and that could make a realistic hardware trim wheel quite pricey.
But if you don’t fight it, and use it for what it is made to do, the way it is made to do it, understanding you are repeatedly clicking a button by spinning the wheel rather than moving an axis, it will quickly vecome better than other available options in the same price range. It is VERY workable. Especially when you find the best speed to turn the wheel (medium slow) for maximum clicks per second to be registered.
And remember, you can always just pop into AP for a few seconds to let the plane trim itself.