I believe this is related to this issue as well.
I experience this and have also tried everything. The only way I found to get around it is to literally just unbind the axis’ the wireless device “emulates” on wake. For me, I’m lucky enough to have Spad, so I moved any axis that would be affected to Spad now, but I would prefer to natively control those basic things like throttle, mixture, prop and spoilers in the control options. I’ll deal with Spad for now, but would like to see this fixed.
Can also confirm its within MSFS only, not on the OS level, as this bug doesn’t happen when those axis’ are on Spad.